Okay, when I opened the topic discussing whether or not polygamy was ethical, some of you stated you did not like my definition of ethics.
To re-iterate, my definition of ethics is the Utilitarianism Theory which was developed by Mr. Jeremy Bentham and Mr. John Mills.
Which, in a nutshell, is the greatest good for the greatest number, or the greatest happiness for the greatest number. The root of the utilitarianism theory is Utility, but that’s not how we use the word today. Utility means a unit of happiness or goodness. This theory basically is a consequentialist theory in that the consequence of your actions is what is important, not the intention you had when you performed the action.
Thus things like jumping on a grenade to save your squad’s lives would be ethical under utilitarianism. (It is unethical under Egoism and may or may not be ethical under relativism.) However, breaking into a home and stealing everything, while creating happiness for YOU, would cause pain/unhappiness for an entire family, maybe an extended family, as well as on the insurance company and the police, etc and thus would not be considered ethical behavior under utilitarianism.
This couples nicely with my impression of the world that people, in general, want to create happiness and pleasure for those around them. That means I think the average person, who is not an egotistical maniac or a religious zealot or clinically insane, would rather create happiness in another person then pain. And, since I view that as the natural order of the world, then it stands to reason that creating the greatest possible good or the greatest possible happiness, for the greatest number, is the definition of what is and is not ethical.
Note, sometimes the greatest good or happiness is only your personal good or happiness. Sometimes it requires self sacrifice to create the greatest good or happiness for the greatest number.
Love to hear why you think that’s a bad definition, however, I am requesting you only post that it’s a bad definition if you have a BETTER definition (in your opinion) and that definition should be one that has been supported by theorists of the past few centuries.
I will, of course, ask you not to refer to Divine Command Theory. The problem with this theory is that some religious commands are unethical to other religions, so how can we possibly determine what religion is the correct religion? And you just assume YOUR religion is the correct one, then you are not really a Divine Command Theorists so much as a Relativist. (Relative to YOUR religion, this is ethical. Etc.)